Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Whatever Wednesdays - Girl Code

Well another Wednesday is here and Shay and Alissa cooked up a good one this week...Girl Code. I guess there is a show on MTV, I haven't watched it yet, but probably should. Anyway, they sent out the topic on Sunday and I thought, I have no freakin' here are my thoughts:

  1. If you call dibs on a guy, it's NOT okay for your friend to then go hard core on you and try to get him first after she's told you that you would be perfect for each other. That happened to me in college, I broke up with that friend, literally, I had a conversation with her, told her I no longer wanted to be friends, walked away and never looked back, well until now.
  2. Just after college I moved out with a friend, or so I thought. She turned out to be ca-razy! She started spreading rumors, etc. It's fine if you don't like me, but don't start spreading false rumors to mutual friends. Not cool. They felt like they had to pick, some of those friendships were never the same.
  3. I learned that when you get a boyfriend, don't drop your friends. Not cool. I did this when I met Mr. But my bestie kicked me in my butt and said, not cool. We then made weekly meet-ups and I made more of an effort. Boys come and go, but best friends are here to stay (or at least I hope they are)

      4. And last but not least, since my life is more about mommyhood, tell me I look fantastic pregnant, don't
          tell me "you look like you're ready to pop" when I still have 3 months to go. This is a time that it is
          perfectly acceptable to LIE YOUR ASS OFF. I already feel like poo, so just go ahead and tell me
          how wonderful I look.

Looking at these pictures apparently I have a thing for polka dots...Blue and white to be specific.



  1. #3 is huge in my book! Girlfriends are the ones that are going to be there for you if things don't work out with a guy - never a good idea to push them away.

    Thanks for linking up!

  2. yes to all your girl codes!! a lot of my friends moved in with each other only to find the other was "crazy"....i had to pick a side once because she happened to be my sorority big sister but man the situation was crazy!!

  3. I hear ya on number four! I might add ask permission before you touch said belly too!

  4. i love that your bestie told you dont when you started dating mr fox there were a few friends i wish i could have said that too. a guy doesn't mean your whole world revolves around him suddenly make sure you keep the people that were in your life before you met your guy still stay in your life

  5. I hate when strangers tell me that I look ready to pop, or 'so uncomfortable' or even worse 'I bet you are bummed its not a girl.' You look fantastic!

  6. People are so weird with pregnant women, it's like they lose all of their manners! Totally agree on all the girl codes!

    xo, Yi-chia
    Always Maylee

  7. Oh my gosh, yes to #3! I learned that the hard way. When an exboyfriend and I broke up I realized I'd ditched all of my friends for him. Big no no! That was hard to have no one to turn to for awhile!

  8. Haha funny. I need to remember the pregnant one: I am not yet in that stage of life.. but when I am.. I will remember ;)